Have you ever met a hot, sexy, strong man then once you start dating they want to be treated like a baby? I have came up with a new theory. If a man wants you to baby him that means he wants to date you. This theory also says if a man doesn’t want you to baby him, he doesn’t want to date you. If you wan’t to find out why then keep reading.
Why is this?
If a boy wants you to baby him, he wants to date you. I think boys have this weird mommy complex, where they love being pampered and babied, but this behavior of them is secret and privet. They only show you the baby side of them, and would DIE if anyone knew they act like a baby when they’re around you. When a boy is serious about you they trust you, see you as the future mother to their children and see you as a nurturer. Obviously super sexist, but deep down every man wants to be pampered and cuddled.
Story time to make my point valid: My college roommate was totally in love with this guy on our floor. They had been hooking up for 7 months, she really wanted him to ask her out, but he was taking a long time. His birthday was coming up, his parents were visiting, and she wanted to do something special for him (Make him breakfast). She was really excited to meet his parents and cook for him but, she didn’t know how to cook, so my other roommate taught her how to make an omelet. She practiced three times, letting us try them all. Once she got it perfect, she was ready to go. On his birthday she woke up ready to cook, she said how she had a surprise for him, and that she was going to make him breakfast. He immediately got defensive and said why would you do that we’re not dating (ouch) then said you should probably leave my parents will be here soon. (double ouch).
This story shows if a guy doesn’t want you to baby and spoil him, then he probably does not want to date you. Who would refuse a free, homemade breakfast? Someone who’s not interested!
SO, next time you’re talking to a guy notice his need and wants. If he wants you to cuddle him, if he uses a baby voice, if he wants you to rub his belly, he probably see you as girlfriend material. But, if he gets mad when you try to do nice things for his and doesn’t let you cuddle him, he most likely does not want to date you. Moral of the story if a boy wants to date you, he will want you to treat him like a baby.
Obviously this is all my own personal theory, so take it with a grain of salt. Hopefully this helps someone.
