Do you ever want to do something special for your partner?

It’s always important to make your partner feel special and celebrated. Obviously, they should also be making you feel special as well. I saw a post on social media asking what is the male equivalent of a woman getting flowers. I was thinking a lot about this question. My boyfriend always picks up the dinner bill and pays for our groceries; and don’t get me wrong, I pick up the check here and there. I like to do small things for my boyfriend to show that I appreciate him in a small way, so it not to over the top.

You should try doing some of these things if you notice your boyfriend or partner is constantly paying for everything. Little things to show you care can go a long way. Boys deserve to be spoiled too, sometimes. Here are some ideas I have came up with that you can do that will make your partner feel extra special.

Buy them a succulent from Trader Joe’s

I did this for my boyfriend once and he loved it. Succulents are super cute and easy to take care of. Every time he looks at the succulent, he will think of you. Also, plants have been proven to boost your mood, productivity, and creativity.

Get their favorite snack when you’re food shopping

I know when my boyfriend ever brings me back some candy after he runs to 7/11, I get so happy. It lets me know that he was thinking about me. So, next time you’re at the store, pick up his favorite snack, candy, or soda. I guarantee he will feel special because he sees you pay attention to what he likes and he knows that you think about him even when he is not around.

Pick up the drink tab

I know, I know, excuse me why? But, sometimes is nice for you to pick the bill up. Say you guys go out to get drinks, and you put your card down. Your boyfriend will probably be shocked, then fall even more in love with you. Since they see you made the gesture of paying for drinks, you don’t have to feel bad ordering something expensive for dinner.

Make their lunch for them

It’s always nice to have a home-made meal. You can make their favorite food and pack their favorite snack. This takes the work away from them and it also lets them know that you notice what they like to eat. Then, you can sneak in a little dessert or candy for them. You can also write a cute note to let them know how much you love them.

Do a surprise spa night for them

Since men are not usually used to getting pampered, this can be a real treat for them. You can do a face mask, give them a little facial, pluck their eyebrows, and give them a scalp/body massage. This will relax them and make them feel special. Everyone loves being pampered.

Write them a letter

Even if they are with you all the time, writing them a note is a cute way to remind them of how much you care about them. You can write about your favorite things they do, and even thank them for being a great partner. It is always nice to hear words of affirmation from your partner, and to hear how loved you are. They can also look back on the letter if you are ever apart and they miss you.

Wake the up with breakfast in bed

Waking up to the smell of bacon and eggs is always a treat. They will be so excited that they have a nice breakfast already made for them. It lets them know that you were thinking about them and want to make them feel special.

So, there you have it, these are somethings you can do to brighten your partners day. Always make sure you are equally as celebrated and pampered. But, if your man is always spoiling you and buying you things, it’s always nice to return the favor. Remember, everyone deserves to be appreciated and celebrated (only if they are nice to you) Thanks for reading. xox.